Would he actually make it into a reality? He doubts that I have real love for him. This man in the armed forces, overseas. I often get questions from my readers like: I have been dating this Pisces guy for a while now, but I can tell if he is leading me on? You have no idea how often women ask me this and I can understand your frustrations. All his other actions need to line up with what he says otherwise you have no reason to believe him. Why do that if he isnt into you? I got up the next morning and he was upset that Inwas leaving so early without even waking him up and wanted to know why. I texted him and apologized for not answering due to being sleep. If you have apologized then he probably just needs a little time to process what has happened. I just dont want to get hurt again. Ok so here is what you do. But then one night I drank a glass to many wine and decided I want an answer. Im sorry you learned the hard way sweetheart. He knows all the right things to say to get into your life or into your pants. Its fantastic he sends money back home and that he does keep in touch. This is both a blessing and a curse. He never went missing always replied to my texts during those 2 months. He does that hot and cold business. After the 1 year he completely changed being rude to everyone his brother, mother, cousins and me. So, youve gotten involved with a Pisces man, but something doesnt feel right. Pisces has a hard time dealing with their feelings and can become a bit of a mess when that happens. ! I said no and started blushing. Your email address will not be published. He shrugged and smiled. Bring Him Back Down to Reality. And dont forget to look into his moon and rising signs too. So he explained he was going through something financial and that he wasnt sure if Id want to be with him during that state which is weird coz I dont mind, I just want him close to me. After the break, he seemed a little distant as if he didnt want to talk much anymore even though we had a really fun time over text. We did eventually Facetime and confirmed the date and time for Thurs. Once he's calmed down, he may come back and tell you he didn't actually want to break up. Incredible. Should I text him again? Ouch yes pain can make you say and do horrible things. Im just now figuring out his mood swings. While he is an expert at convincing people of anything; he is flawed. Share your story (or situation) with our community in the comment section below (dont worry, its anonymous). It seems unfair to me. He wants to see how far he can push things with you and how much he can get away with. Although I thought that was kind quick I said yes! Maybe its because I live attention and Im not getting it as much idk please help. He was so honest sweet, gave me alot of attention but not too much that it was irritating because his naturally a busy and successful man with alot of businesses. I need clarity. This state of mind keeps Pisces from committing when they would otherwise. I am not reaching out this time. He ghosted me for a couple days came back and apologized saying he needed space because it irritated him how Id freak out, but I reminded him I was high. Also he deals with depression from time to time. 1. I dont want to loose contact with you at all and I dont want ti hold you back or waste your time. As a Capricorn, you should be able to provide stability and a steady ground from with to work on. You have a right to know where he thinks things stand so you can be on the same page with whether or not its something good or its just a friendship. He tries to speak and act like he cares if I ignore him , but let me show attention in anyway and he basically ignores me!!!! And be loving and caring instead of full of hatred. I tried to understand but he kept doing it for 2 months. At the end of that date we kissed. Maybe with time that will change but right now youve got to accept just the friendship hes leaving open and try to focus on you. Why break it all up by telling him he needs to give it a title. The miscarriages were probably the universe saying dont have kids with this guy at least not now. If Im perfect according to him whats the problem then? Your email address will not be published. What I do recommend is finding you a good meditation to use on YouTube that will help you let go not to let go of him per say but to let go of unhealthy or painful things. He is a athlete and travels allot and barely has time but he does try to make time for me and show me that he misses me or wants to see me, but then he can be flakey because hes so busy and barely has time that he tries to over extend himself which drives me crazy. A few days ago I walked into the band (which is where the band nerds usually hang out) and kohen and his brother were in the locker area where we keep our trumpets. Ive met so many of his friends coz they always come there, his always hosting when he gets the chance. I wasnt embarrassed, just caught off guard. There after he didnt see me for 2 months which was so weird and unusual and I tried my best to be positive and patient with him. Him still kind of caring isnt the same as a relationship kind of care. What I should do, I do video calls with me, he adore me calling him with cute names. So how to know if a Pisces man is playing you? and this is why he could not access his bank. I texted him the next day that Thurs would be a good day. They are amazing but its getting that trust as you mentioned is what makes it last. Remember that Pisces men can be incredibly manipulative. So I got there and we talked so I told him I know Im not wrong and that he is someone else and he looked me in the eyes saying no theres not but he moved his hand. Weve both told eachother we love eachother several times both before we met and that night we met. I wish you all the best! He seems to always think that the grass is always greener on the other side, and he likes to keep his options open. What are your thoughts please. He is then forced to tell you what he wants and if he wants the same thing. When they ghost you and come back, read their message carefully. His insecurities got the best of him and he's too weak to even say "It's not you, it's me." ARIES. It must be because they are so sweet, romantic, and sensitive. Thanks Again Anna been waiting to hear from you soon. Ask him if hes alright or if something has changed between you. When a Pisces man isnt committed and is using you; hell flake out quite often. They can change their thoughts or feelings on a dime. My ex fiancee now he put me out after six years and 2 kids for a woman who is older than him and me on valentines day which was also our anniversary of engagement. 4. Also what was with him not seeing me for 2 months that was weird too. He still calls me checks on me still possessive. It's for you to decide whether their reasons for ghosting you, and now their reasons for coming back, are valid ones. As if its ok for him to do it but if I did it he wouldnt like it. He also asked my roomate if we were having sex, but my roomate is just a close friend. Tell him he needs to let you know otherwise you will go work on yourself as well. We both broke it off cause I found that he was on bubble. 5. This will aid you in figuring out how to know if a Pisces man is playing you. As sad as he was he did not want to let me go at all. Im a Cancer, and I was talking to a Pisces guy who liked me a lot; however, at the time, I wasnt able to dedicate enough time to the relationship, so things ended between us. He should take the time he needs or wants on days he hasnt already promised to get together with you or at least communicate with you that he has been feeling overwhelmed and needs some space to breathe. I told him I was sorry and that I dont want him to hate me but all he said was I dont hate anyone. Then at every practice, the trumpets would talk about how I liked him. He will be pretty obvious about it. And then when he send his mother a picture of something she wanted him to buy I saw a girls name, instantly my mood shifted. I bought one for $25, he was not happy, He wanted me to increase the amount. All of the signs show that he doesnt like me. Hi there, so here is my situation. If your Pisces guy tends to leave out details when youve asked him what hes been up to; he is either feeling he doesnt have to answer to you or he knows hes being dishonest. I love him so much. They value honesty and enjoy being carefree.. And gave ever excuse we why couldnt! HE found me!!! I still get confused at times because reading some articles of Aquarius not being the best match for a Pisces makes me feel worried. He told me that we could work through it. But if you have tried those options already and his distant behavior has not changed, he may just need to be reeled in. We were to go get a drink but opted just to sit in his car and talk more. Unfortunately, this is one of the tactics he uses to really get under your skin. We both were looking and wanting the same things. However; there is always a way to catch someone in a lie and hes no different and that is body language! Weve been together for roughly 2 years and met in the most unusual place. I loved his cheeky approach and enjoyed chatting to him and it escalated quickly as he was saying all the right things. Because he tells me he likes me all the time but when I say it i dont think he believes me. Help please? Its this type of thing that can cause Pisces man to play mind games. I know that he is in a healing stage as he broke up but he did not tell me its has been how long. He has a feeling that you are not on the same pond. Maybe months or years down the road youll bump into him or send a random text and he may reply but trust that unless hes over everything, he likely wont start anything up with you again. If he really decides he wants to be with you, hell make it very known. He almost did but I didnt let that happen so I started to distance myself away from him. we meet again at a family meeting he was tall grown and unrecognizable we didnt realzed we met when were younger until we talked he was my type and of the bat, I liked him so I started doing little things (flirting) but he also seemed interested and was flirting back then next thing I know I try to leave the room we were in the quietly says I am a cancer woman and met my pisces man almost 2 weeks ago. This isnt even all of the details but a summary..what do you think ? There is just so much the sun sign can tell you. Were together and these types of convos shouldnt be an issue. We are a long distant couple. So I thought to myself I need closure because he still didnt admit to seeing someone else. He will blame everyone else for his problems and make excuses about why it is never his fault. right now because i dont know his mind towards m. I am so very sorry youre going through this. Im wondering if maybe this little fling ran its course I sure would love to keep him in my life but the dipping out is just not something I can deal with. im a leo woman and this guy has been trying to meet up with me for over half a year now. This makes him incredibly insecure enough to play the jealousy card on you. He said everything I needed to hear. One day I called him dude and he said dude?!?!?! He sees no value in reaching out and trying to talk anything through. We had made an agreement to see each other the next day, which was Monday. My experience with some Pisces men is that they have an idealized version of their past ex, and they keep playing that story in their heads on repeat, when in reality, that ex, or their past experience with her, wasnt as great as they have made it up in their mind. He didnt reply and then like 3 days later my humanity set in and I started feeling really bad and I told him Im sorry I gave him a negative mind set and I reacted wrong so he called me and we talked like there were no bad vibes. Blah, sounds like you haven an alcoholic on your hands. He got a 2nd job without discussing what I think. I feel crazy saying hes watching me but it feels that way. This is where his actions become more important than his words. Please dont write Pisces men off from your sour experience sweetheart. The good thing about a Pisces man is that when he commits, he really commits. AS far as right now, he sounds a bit like a stalker. His attitude is so confusing sometimes I want to break up with him but sometimes I cant. 8 signs he'll come back 1) He ghosted you by mistake How can someone ghost you by mistake? Watch for everything Ive mentioned here and you should be able to tell rather quickly whether your Pisces man is actually into you and trying to commit or if hes talking himself up for something he wont ever deliver. When I told him that I have feelings for him, he said he dont know what he wants and he just trying to develop himself. Just an advice for all my girls out there: work on the relationship with your Pisces like you are growing a plant. So sorry sweetheart. He does know I recently lost my job due to this pandemic and his always been so understanding and supportive about it even used to give me money for no reason and without asking either but that has stopped and I really dont mind Ive never asked for it anyway. Typical leo woman, I like consistency. If you need more guidance then check out my book Pisces Man Secrets. It might not even be your fault, but he will conveniently blame you for something because he expects you to fix his problems for him. He dropped me home, we made out a lot in his car. But its only until he fully trusts you that he may start to change his ways. He was like yes, just need some fresh air. He even texted me saying dont forget you have a man now, you cant let hours go without checking in here I am loving the consistency and attention. If this is how you feel, this will be respected. Calmness, being rational, and gentle is the only way to get along with a Pisces to the extent that they wont pull back. I was under the impression you were down for me to stay and interested in hooking up. ya da, ya da. Hello. He always asked me to some sexy pictures and videos to him and most of the conversation is steamy. The second seven signs are the indicators that he's gone for good. Shutterstock. If your gut is the one telling you hes up to no good then that may be right but if its just your fear making you think this then youve got to try to remind yourself of who he was before he left. So I text him at noon and say so no more morning texts? And he response is so Im the only one who can text? Implying it would be nice if I texted too. We simply just loooved talking to each other and being in each others company. Are you upset? Dont sell yourself short. I dont wanna be too clingy but i really want to show him i really care about him. I said no. But this time, he said something I didnt like so I pulled him up on it. I have never asked him for money and asking him for money for birth control has always happened and his always sent it and weve discussed it so its not unusual. Im sorry youve had a harrowing experience with yours but keep in mind that we all have the 12 signs in our birth charts. He got drowned by his own thoughts. i wish i didnt go back because i want him to text me again and i wasnt even into him from the start. You are an amazing woman! Start looking for the things that give him away. Please help because I like him. If he cannot answer its because hes not sure. i think my confidence intimated him because i have a very sarcastic way of talking and i think it triggered him idk. If you need more help, check out my books on Pisces Man Secrets. Also check out my books on Pisces Man Secrets for more information. Ive tried to walk away and ignore him, ghost him, but it hurts! He sounds like he has some strong Virgo somewhere dominant in his chart. He has plans of studying where I am. It sounds as though youre figured out the truth behind the Pisces man. If a relationship between the two of you can happen it will require much more lessons in communication. Email support@annakovach.com Then I can advise you with your unique Pisces man situation sweetheart. This is one of the signs that your Pisces man is playing you and leading you on. Wishing you the best! This is a super cowardly thing to do, but I guess it has been a very long time since he has been able to get away with this kind of behavior. I feel like the mixed signals are driving me insane! Hi I am Virgo, the man that I in love in is March Pisces. He could be seeing other people and breaking plans with you to go see them. No more asking how was my day doing etc he was so keen and excited to learn about my life too. Let him know that you wont stand for this nonsense. I wish you nothing but the very best you deserve! Sadly this lasted only for 1 year. 3 days later I figured everything out after taking a step back from him realizing that he is also seeing someone else. His actions and words arent lining up. I thought that was a good idea because they are kind of alike. You cant push them or pressure them. So my Pisces guy and I have been together 4 years he has done a lot of shitty things like leaves and doesnt message me to tell me where hes going and at times gets drunk and stays out very late without me knowing where he is. Then kohen walked into the room to grab something and as he was leaving and the 11 graders looked at him and said, Kohen, do you like Nevada! Am cancer bornjl July.Am married with him now 14years still counting by his grace.But my fear is he traveled out of the country but he do send us money for our upkeep, when he got there newly he do send text messages, video call,chart and show much love but i noticed after 1plus he got there are little changes in him dat is hardly for him to chart wt m or drop message or even speak with the kids but i wl always be d one to do dat first before he could reply m.But later i found he has gotten someone but i asked him about it.But he tried to denied it.But still sending us money for our upkeep but no attention like before but keep telling m his busy.Then i try to discuss this with him,dat is like his trying to avoid m for another woman and till 4days now he busy his line when ever i call him.I later went to try him in another line but pick up when he heard my voice he told m is not ready to speak with me and he hang up the call.Since then he didnt call but i drop a apology messages for him still not reply till today.Am really depressed ???? Well for the past 3 years Ive been working on myself and trying to forget about him and getting my life together as a young adult. Pisces and Pisces Compatibility - 7 years. He needs to find middle ground with you. Its not easy to be with a Pisces man if youve never experienced one before. One day we stayed on the phone for 7 hours just talking. He stayed at my place almost every night for about 2 weeks, then left for 6 weeks to handle personal things. Even Ive apologized to my pisces man sincerely and bare my soul for him to see, he is still being a bit distant with me and it hurts. There is nothing more infuriating than a man who cant commit to something. Tell him its creepy. I noticed he would talk about his ex often and still was in contact and I called him out and said if you want to be with your ex then go. Hello Im a Leo woman dealing with a Pisces man, Im so confused with him its ridiculous. Well, there are always ways you can fix this and take back the relationship you worked so hard for! I later told him he was mine in a text. Youll have to take a different approach to how you talk to him. Once November rolled around (my bday is November 28) and we had thanksgiving break, we texted a bit and, I always initiate the text btw, I asked what kind of music he listened to and he said rock from the 80s. If youve already seen enough, and want to finally get out of his vicious circle of games, check out my 3-step formula for a Pisces man, it will guide you in the right direction. I did and we had sex, watched a movie, cuddled and he asked if he could see me. Thoughts? If hes hurting you then hes not the right one for you sweetheart. Pisces man can be a serious space cadet, the non-mindful ones at least. We made Plans to meet on Saturday. But he called me before I could get home and asked me why I left so abruptly? How could things go from amazing to almost non-existent so quickly? I think Its too early to even start talking about sex and he says, we adults shouldnt put a time on things. I dont think hes ready to do that. I questioned him, and asked him why he needed such a large amount, he told me, but then later said it I was being too inquisitive, and asking too many questions, and he felt like the questioning was like a mother talking to a son. that was our first meeting in years! And he totally flipped out, and began to tell me, I dont love him, and if I cared about him, I would pay for his ticket. Tell him you love him and miss him. Read more about Pisces by checking out my book. I backed of as did he, then one night he wants to come home with me, although I tried to discourage him, I cant lie I wanted him. Tell him what it is that you really want and then ask him what it is he really wants because you feel hes keeping you at somewhat of a distance. I know his daily schedule and he calls me before he sleeps. Thats when I started to get into astrology. Hi I am a Scorpio, with a Pisces mask, Scorpio moon, and joined a social media app (not fb) just recently. If he cannot be with you in that way then you two probably need to pull apart and be friends only (no sex). He's an over-thinker. Hes about to take me on a hunting trip. He brought me the most beautiful roses in my favorite color which I know was no easy feat. And I only get real emotion from him when I threaten to walk away. Hi so the last message I received from my Pisces man goes as follow : hey my person a sorry and forgive me is probably not what you want to hear. He does believe in true love and finding his soulmate, and he wants to find her badly. He said I understand if you are upset, I said Im not upset, Im sad and that was it. He even asked if me and this boy was dating one time only because me and the boy use to talk everyday and play around in class. 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