They just sit there beside you when you have had a rough day and lean over to give you a little lick on the hand just to let you know they are there. After you meet with your recruitment group, you line up outside of your first sorority. I ended up in a sorority that was at the bottom of my list but I thought I'd give it a try and so far I haven't really clicked with any of the girls so I think I'm gonna drop. I don't think many groups pad their numbers for informal, mainly informal is about getting to know women better and deciding if they are an asset to your chapter or if they would be a good sister. Location: America by birth ~ Georgia by the grace of God. Fraternity rush is usually less formal than that of sororities. First thing you need to do is removing the identifying information in your post. . I knew someone who was in this exact same situation, and she did get a bid to another sorority in the end. Re-Rushing As A Sophomore? What does getting cut mean? 1. Mary Dell Harrington and Lisa (Endlich) Heffernan are the co-founders of Grown and Flown the #1 site for parents of teens, college students and young adults, reaching millions of parents every month. It's incredibly important to make sure that you go into recruitment with an open mind and don't judge any sorority before you meet them. Congratulations to all the writers! There are a lot of perks of joining a sorority and it can really be an incredible experience for many college girls. She gave her the courage to reach out on her own to the President of one via social media. This Sorority Girl Was Okay With Her Daughter Not Rushing. (d=a.next()).done;)e.push(d.value)}catch(l){var f={error:l}}finally{try{d&&!d.done&&(c=a["return"])&&c.call(a)}finally{if(f)throw f.error;}}return e}function k(a,b,c){if(c||2===arguments.length)for(var d=0,e=b.length,f;d